This adds a basic test of doing simultaneous diffs on multiple
threads and adds basic locking for the attr file cache because
that was the immediate problem that arose from these tests.
Ignore rules with slashes in them are matched using FNM_PATHNAME
and use the path to the .gitignore file from the root of the
repository along with the path fragment (including slashes) in
the ignore file itself. Unfortunately, the relative path to the
.gitignore file was being applied to the global core.excludesfile
if that was also named ".gitignore".
This fixes that with more precise matching and includes test for
ignore rules with leading slashes (which were the primary example
of this being broken in the real world).
This also backports an improvement to the file context logic from
the threadsafe-iterators branch where we don't rely on mutating
the key of the attribute file name to generate the context path.
