This streamlines git_buf_join and removes the join-append behavior,
opting instead for a very compact join-replace of the git_buf contents.
The unit tests had to be updated to remove the join-append tests and
have a bunch more exhaustive tests added.
Add new functions to git_buf for:
* initializing a buffer from a string
* joining one or more strings onto a buffer with separators
* swapping two buffers in place
* extracting data from a git_buf (leaving it empty)
Also, make git_buf_free leave a git_buf back in its initted state,
and slightly tweak buffer allocation sizes and thresholds.
Finally, port unit tests to clay and extend with lots of new tests
for the various git_buf functions.
