Add highWaterMark option when creating a new HTTP server.
This option will override the default (readable|writable)
highWaterMark values on sockets created.
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/46606
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/47405
Reviewed-By: Robert Nagy <ronagy@icloud.com>
Reviewed-By: Paolo Insogna <paolo@cowtech.it>
Reviewed-By: Debadree Chatterjee <debadree333@gmail.com>
